I’m sure you’ve seen me talk about my friend Tonya from Love of Family and Home. We are not just online friends, we are real life friends first. We met at church a few years ago and became super close…especially since we both were bloggers and could relate to each other!
Last week Tonya turned her dream into a reality and her and her mom opened up a local boutique selling home decor, clothing, gifts and accessories. Ahhhh! (more…)
Last week we got an email from our adoption agency in Minnesota telling us that ICAB (the Philippines government officials) were COMING for a visit on October 17th…yes, TODAY.
To be completely honest with you, I was so excited because we have been waiting for them to visit our agency for months. They were supposed to come in August, but it got postponed. After I thought about it for about 2 seconds…my excitement turned to panic.
Because here’s the thing… We live in Illinois. And Minnesota and Illinois are not close together. Last week when she told me they would be in Minnesota on October 17th? It was less than 8 days away.
If you’ve never checked flight prices for a flight you need in 8 days, let me just tell you, you might feel like you need to sell your living room furniture to make it happen. It’s not cheap. $600/person not cheap.
Did I mention we have 5 people in our family? I literally spent two whole days in tears.
It’s been one of those questions that I get asked over and over again.
“What do your kids think about you adopting a baby?”
Most of the time I respond with the usual answer, “Our 7 year old is old enough to understand and be excited, but the 4 and 3 year old are too little to know what it means.”
But what I started to realize is that I never tried to explain it to them on a toddler level. Not because I didn’t want to, but because I really didn’t know how to.
When your kids ask you, “Why are we adopting a baby?” or “Why doesn’t that baby have a mommy and daddy?”…it’s easy to just blow off the question and say “You are too little to understand right now…”.
But the truth is, I should have been attempting to help them makes sense of what adoption really means. Especially since it’s going to be such a huge part of our family history.
From the moment I jump out of bed I immediately start processing all of the things that I have to get done for the day. It’s like my brain is a human list of to-do tasks. Most of which I’d rather stab myself in the eye than complete.
Any moment that it isn’t sleeping…it is thinking.
Do y’all have a brain like that? One that is impossible to shut down?! I blame my dad for this DNA gene. He will wake up in the middle of the night and start writing things down that need to get done that he was thinking about in his sleep.
I’m so excited to announce that our Happy Mommy Shop is OPEN!! Yes, like RIGHT NOW y’all.