How to Start a Mom Blog

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how do I start a blog

So let me take a guess? You have always wanted to start a blog, but haven’t because you are too busy {story of my life}.  You love to stalk read other mom blogs, but you’ve told yourself that you just don’t have the time to start your own.

Stop procrastinating. Today is your day to start a mom blog!

Follow these four EASY steps {yes only four} and I assure you that you will have your new blog up and running before your next load of laundry is done.


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Four Steps to Getting the Busy Mom Blogging Today:

  1. Name your Place {Buy Domain}
  2. Go Shopping {Purchase Hosting & Change Nameservers}
  3. It’s Time to Accessorize {Install WordPress}
  4. Choose your Style {Pick a Theme}

Step #1: Name your Place

It’s time to buy a domain! Hopefully by now you have thought about what you want your URL to be. If not, you need to decide before going forward.

I chose http://houseofroseblog.com because http://houseofrose.com was already taken. Spend some time thinking about this part because it’s something you won’t be able to change easily {without compromising your branding}.

There is always the option of registering one domain for free when you sign up for your hosting package {which will be explained soon}.  I would recommend not giving one company COMPLETE control over the two most important parts of your site. I always recommend to register your domain with a separate company from which you purchased your hosting package. There are several choices when it comes to registering a domain.

My top pick is GoDaddy. It will cost you between $10 and $20 per year to register your domain. Also, keep in mind that this must be renewed annually.

1.  Go to GoDaddy.com to register your new domain.

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Type in your desired domain.

2. Enter your desired domain

3. Follow the prompts

*Sidenote: I do not recommend using them for hosting. I have heard many not-so-lovely reviews on their hosting service. Strictly use them for domain purchase only.

*Sidenote #2: There are usually discount codes available for GoDaddy. Before you complete your online purchase make sure that you do a google search for “GoDaddy.com coupon code”. 

Step #2:  Go Shopping

Isn’t shopping one of your favorite hobbies? I bet you didn’t realize that even in creating your own blog…you get to shop!

You need to purchase your hosting. Luckily this won’t be a purchase your hubby will fall out of his chair over {like when you brought home your last designer handbag}.   This purchase is MUCH cheaper and will only cost you between $5 and $10 a month!

1. Go to Bluehost

2. Click “Sign Up Now”

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3. Enter your domain

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*Sidenote: See where it says “I Need a Domain Name”? This is what I was referring to earlier when I said that hosting companies will allow you to register one domain for free. I would not recommend this option.

4.  Enter your account and billing information. Make sure and input your personal account information as well as billing information.

5.  Choose your hosting package. You have the choice of 12 months, 24 months or 36 months based on your preference. Again, the longer time frame the cheaper it will be.

how do I start a blog bluehost package options6.  Once you have chosen an “Account Plan”, go ahead and uncheck all of the boxes {SiteLock Domain Security, Site Backup Pro, Search Engine Jumpstart}.

7.  Click “next”.

You will receive a confirmation in your email inbox.

Change the Nameservers on your Domain

Here is a short {and easy to follow} video tutorial on how to change the name server on your domain with GoDaddy.

Step #3: It’s Time to Accessorize

Here we are going to be going over how to upload WordPress to the Server {Bluehost}.

1. Log in to your Bluehost account {you should have received an email with your user id/password information after purchasing your hosting package}.

2. Click the icon that reads “Simple Scripts” under the “Software/Serives” in your cPanel. You may also simply click on the “WordPress” icon to go straight to the install page.

how do I start a blog steps 3. Click “WordPress” under “Blogs” how do I start a blog WordPress 4. Click “Install”how do I start a blog Install 5. Specify what domain you want Worpress to be installed on.

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6. Choose your “Advanced Options” {if you want to}. Not necessary in my opinion.

7. Agree to Bluehost Terms of Service.

8. Click “Complete” WordPress has been uploaded to your domain.

Step #4: Choose your Style

Some people are traditional, some rustic chic, others contemporary. Just like personal style, blogs need personality too. This is where you will pick a theme.

There are tons of different “free” themes that you can choose from. If you are trying to save money then I suggest just choosing a free theme. I use a premium {meaning that it’s paid for} theme.

There are two that I would recommend: Thesis and Genesis. This website runs on Thesis. I have the most experience and knowledge in Thesis. However, I have heard wonderful things about Genesis. The advantage to a premium theme is the ability to customize your site the way you want it.

If you decide to go with Thesis it will prompt you to choose between Thesis 2.0 or Thesis 1.8.5. I would recommend downloading Thesis 1.8.5 {the Basic version}. It’s much easier to use than 2.0.

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*Update: With the release of Thesis 2.0 we would recommend going with Genesis. Thesis 2.0 is not user friendly. We are looking at switching our sites to Genesis.


That’s it!

To log in to your new site go to:

http://yourdomain.com/wp-admin Example:  http://houseofroseblog.com/wp-admin.  Enter your unique user id/password Begin blogging!

Enter Your Email & Click Subscribe

Have questions on how to create your own blog?   Leave your comment/question below and I’ll do my best to get you started blogging today!  

Disclaimer: Please note that some of the links below are affiliate links.  I will earn a commission if you purchase through those links. All of the affiliate links mentioned are products or services that I am recommending because I believe in them and think they are helpful not because I may earn a commission.

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Carrie November 19, 2012 at 11:31 am

I SOOOO wish I would have seen this months ago when I started blogging! It’s nice to have all the steps simply explained all in one place.

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Mandy November 19, 2012 at 9:05 pm

I’m a little late, huh?! Haha! Sorry! But you are doing a wonderful job!

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Carrie November 22, 2012 at 7:38 am

Ha ha! No worries Mandy! Thanks so much for your encouragement!

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Emily November 19, 2012 at 1:48 pm

I started a blog though blogspot. Do you think your way is better? I was thinking of going though wordpress but blogger seemed like it was way to go.

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Mandy November 19, 2012 at 9:08 pm

Hi Emily! I guess that would be a matter of opinion really. I prefer WP over Blogger because there are more options and ways to customize your site. Blogspot is good if you are looking for something for free and something that is super user friendly. Starting on Blogger is not a bad idea. You can always switch to WP later on.

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Sarah November 19, 2012 at 4:01 pm

I also started a blog with blogspot. If you convert to wordpress and get your own domain name as you’ve described above, can you import all your previous blog posts to maintain your blogging history?

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Mandy November 22, 2012 at 9:23 pm

Yep, you sure can! And my husband and I have a tutorial on Dollars and Roses on how to move your blog from Blogger to Wordpress: http://dollarsandroses.com/how-to-move-your-blog-from-blogger-to-wordpress/

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Jennifer L December 3, 2012 at 7:57 am

Hi Mandy! Thank you so much for sharing this! I have a question about switching from Blogger to WordPress. Will doing so affect my followers and how they can reach my blog ( not all of them follow by email)? Thank you again for posting this and being so helps to all us momma’s who want to blog.
Jennifer L´s last [type] ..That one day we had to take Zach to the Hospital

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Mandy December 5, 2012 at 10:10 pm

If it’s a free blogspot address that you have then you can’t redirect to the new URL. But, what I did…is just an announcement post and left it up telling people where to find my new blog. Eventually people will catch on!

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Jennifer L December 11, 2012 at 12:03 pm

Good to know! Thank you again for the advice!

Kelly November 19, 2012 at 10:19 pm

Great post! So easy to follow even I can do it!

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Mandy November 19, 2012 at 10:26 pm

Thanks Kelly!

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Meaghan November 19, 2012 at 10:48 pm

I just recently started reading your blog and have fallen in love with it! I am so glad you posted this because I am wanting to start my own and was completely unsure how to get started besides using blogspot. Thank you so much for posting this!

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tabatha stimpson November 20, 2012 at 12:43 am

how awesome of you to share this!!! my only problem….what the heck to yack about! ha!! seriously though…i aint got nuttin :) keep it up girl!

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Sarah November 20, 2012 at 8:32 am

Thank you for writing this! Why do you like to keep your domain and hosig company seperate? How do you get advertising income or companies to advertise on your site? And… Sorry for all the questions…about how much time do you spend working on your blog? Thank you!

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Mandy November 22, 2012 at 9:19 pm

I just don’t like to give one company complete control over the two most important parts of my site (in case something goes down, etc). Plus I have heard bad things about GoDaddy’s hosting service. I’m part of BlogHer ad network and that is what generates most of my ad revenue. It’s something you have to apply for on BlogHer.com. I spend a lot of time on my blog. A LOT! Haha! It took me 4 years to monetize it and it’s still a slow process.

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Vania November 21, 2012 at 2:02 am

thank you, thank you! I had semi-started something on Blogspot, but after reading this, I think WordPress would suit me better. Thank you for laying this all out!

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Holly November 22, 2012 at 7:26 pm

Aw man! I wish I’d seen this like a year ago! But it’s really awesome that you’ve put this together. Do you know any good sites to customize a blogger??

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Mandy November 22, 2012 at 9:15 pm

I don’t because I have been on WP for too long! LOL! I do know that my friend Jenn (who designed my header) does Blogger design! http://www.munchkinland-designs.com/

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Holly January 19, 2013 at 7:35 pm

Thank you! Also, I love your blog, I read it all the time ;)

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Kate November 28, 2012 at 2:50 pm

Great information! Thanks. I recently started a blog {3 weeks ago thru blogger} and was just wondering if you have any advice on how to get followers. I blog 5-6 times per week and I participate in Link-Ups to help get my name out there. I was also thinking about sponsoring a blog that I follow to help drive traffic. Do you have any other tips for us newbies? Love your blog BTW, I feel like I stalk you haha Hopefully one of these days I will be brave enough to vlog with Stop & Smell the Roses!

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Mandy December 5, 2012 at 10:22 pm

Hi Kate! Sorry for the delayed response. It sounds like you are off to the right start. Try to join some forums where you can really network with other bloggers. That helps! Pinterest has been a huge traffic generator for me. Posting images and tutorials that are “pinnable”.

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Irina November 29, 2012 at 11:04 pm

Thanks for the great information. quick question what if i am not using wordpress for my bog? I just started blogging but using Blogger instead of Wordpress.

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Mandy November 30, 2012 at 12:23 pm

This information is for Wordpress, but if you ever wanted to switch from Blogger to Wordpress we have a tutorial on how to do that here: http://dollarsandroses.com/how-to-move-your-blog-from-blogger-to-wordpress/

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Thien Do November 30, 2012 at 10:45 am

Ah you’re motivating me to restart my blog! Except mine isn’t too exciting =( Thanks for posting the designer link though, maybe that will kick start me.

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Shauna December 11, 2012 at 2:03 am

Hello! I love all your tips! I’m looking to start another blog and I’m used to using blogger. What’s the difference between blogger and Wordpress and why do you recommend Wordpress over blogger?

Thanks!

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Mandy December 11, 2012 at 12:12 pm

Wordpress has a ton more options for customization than Blogger. It’s a little less user friendly, but a lot better for customizing your site.

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Felicita December 11, 2012 at 9:31 pm

I too wish I would have seen this before I started..oh well! I just registered my name with blogger..like 10 minutes ago! Ha! I started back in August but boy it can sure be time consuming. Anywho, thanks for the advice and love your blog, it is addicting :)
I would love to try WP too, I feel like the layout options are so generic :(
Do you know if WP is iPad friendly? My computer is on the fritz now so the iPad is the only way for me to do anything right now.

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Felicita December 11, 2012 at 9:57 pm

One more question, what is this google+ thingy?? I’m so afraid of it! It’s like opening my door to strangers …like all the way..but I guess that goes with the territory. What are your thoughts on it?
Felicita´s last [type] ..Peace out September!

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jeff Rose January 1, 2013 at 3:41 pm

@ Felicita

Google+ is just another social media channel to compete with Facebook and Twitter. It hasn’t worked out the way Google had hoped it would, but I would still signing up for it. Why? Because Google owns it and they own the web. :)
jeff Rose´s last [type] ..Carnival Of Personal Finance – Happy New Year’s Edition

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Autumn December 28, 2012 at 9:57 am

Thanks for your instructions.. I followed them exactly and got my blog setup today.

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Tawny Glamorouslymommy.com December 28, 2012 at 9:44 pm

I could you do an in-depth post like this on SEO or maybe a video?

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Mandy December 28, 2012 at 9:46 pm

I’ve done a few posts on SEO over on my other site DollarsandRoses.com. Check out this one: http://dollarsandroses.com/6-simple-seo-strategies/

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Raelynn December 28, 2012 at 10:40 pm

Hi Mandy….thanks for all the great advise and “how-to’s”!! You and your hubby are a great inspiration to all those wanting to get into blogging and make something out of it. I appreciate all the honesty you put into it and are not afraid to give us the low down of what you make, and yet what its taken to get you there!! Kudos to you both….

Quick questions…I use WordPress, and purchased my domain name through them, I’ve been wanting to go to a self hosted site (so I’ll be checking out BlueHost), can I basically skip step 1 and go straight to step 2 using my site name that I purchased through WP?

Thanks So Much,
Raelynn

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Mandy January 16, 2013 at 10:40 pm

If you already have a domain that you purchased then yes, you should be able to go purchase your hosting any where you want. So sorry for the late reply…I am somehow just now seeing this comment! If you purchase your hosting through Bluehost I would love for you to go through our affiliate link! http://houseofroseblog.com/bluehost

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Dannielle January 1, 2013 at 6:39 pm

Hi Mandy,
I love your blog! I found it while searching the net for random parenting information. I don’t have any biological children but I do have two great step-kids (and a dog) which we jokingly refer to as my babies from other ladies around the house. I decided to attempt a step-mom blog because I find that while I relate to moms in some ways, step-moms face a lot of their own challenges coming into a blended family. Hopefully I’ll have it up and running soon!

I love the line you used when talking about your adoption – “Love doesn’t grow in the uterus, it grows in the heart.” I couldn’t agree more!

Thanks for the great tutorial!

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Vickerie January 3, 2013 at 5:06 pm

Do you recommend choosing the private domain registration at GoDaddy? Wasn’t really sure if it was an unnecessary up-sell or if it was worth it – Thanks, Vickerie!

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Mandy January 16, 2013 at 10:37 pm

If you are writing your blog anonymously than you would want to choose private…if you are not than I would choose public.

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Steffie January 6, 2013 at 11:20 pm

I have a question when signing up on godaddy.com, what is the difference between public and private registration?

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Mandy January 16, 2013 at 10:44 pm

Private registration would be if you want to write anonymously.

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Nancy January 13, 2013 at 5:34 pm

Hi Mandy!

I started my blog using your steps! You made it so easy! Thank you! My genius brother designed my website and I think it’s great for my first one. My question for you is: how do I join a linky party? I’ve tried googling it but, I keep reading all kinds of different things. Confusing. I’d like to join the winter one you recently posted but I can’t figure out how. Can you help me with super easy step-by-step instructions? I would be ever so grateful!

Thank you!!!

Nancy

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Mandy January 16, 2013 at 10:29 pm

So sorry that I am just now seeing this comment! It’s super easy to link up! You will see a blue button at the bottom of the post that says “add your link”. All you need to do is follow the prompts. It will ask you to enter your url (of the post you are linking up), name of post, and email. Then it will let you choose a photo (again it will prompt you). That’s it! I will try and do a detailed tutorial with screen shots as a blog post in case anyone else has this same question. Hope to see you Monday for the “thrift it” challenge!

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Nancy January 17, 2013 at 6:42 pm

Thank you so much, Mandy! You and your blog are such a blessing! I’ll link up to one of the days for sure. Thanks again! You are an inspiration. :)
Nancy´s last [type] ..Getting Organized

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Destinee January 16, 2013 at 1:29 pm

Hi there… I have a blog and I was wondering how you add the button to allow a post to be “pinned” on pinterest? Thank you =)

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Mandy January 16, 2013 at 10:08 pm

If you go to Pinterest there is a section under “about” and “pin it button” where you can drag and drop it to your toolbar.

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Amanda January 28, 2013 at 3:50 am

Hello,

First off, I would like to say that you inspired me to create my own blog :) I thank you for your detailed tutorial. Your site is awesome. I have a question, I’m trying to figure out how to connect a Pinterest button onto my page and I can’t figure out how to do this? I’ve read that it’s not possible with Wordpress but I see you made it possible :) can you please help.

Thanks
Amanda

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Mandy January 28, 2013 at 10:19 am

It’s a plug in that you download. It’s called Pinterest Pin It Button. Click on your plug ins tab, type the name of the plug-in in to the search tab, download it and then activate it. Hope that helps!

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Cami Pernell January 29, 2013 at 10:19 pm

I am starting a website for our adoption. I have a domain and my friend signed me up through a hosting company. He set me up with a basic theme but I do not know how to add anything. It is wordpress. So if I sign up for Thesis, can I pick out templates or apply thesis to the template I already have? Also, is it easy for me to add links, tabs, social media tabs, etc? Right now my friend has to add code for the links. For example, I would like to have a recommended reading tab that links people to the book they can buy. Is that “stuff” easy to add? Also my friend has designed a logo for me. Can I easily add that to a thesis site? Thank you for your help.

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Toie January 30, 2013 at 5:51 pm

Hi, I just started my blog. I was thinking that starting out with a free blog until I get established and know what I am doing would be the best idea. Do you have any advice for someone new to blogging? I look forward to using these steps when I upgrade to a better blog website.

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Mandy January 31, 2013 at 8:40 pm

You can find tons of info on blog advice over at the site I have with my husband: Dollarsandroses.com

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Caty February 21, 2013 at 10:43 pm

This is so helpful! And I love your blog- such cute kids and family! Quick question- and you may not know the answer- right now my blog is dksjahfkjhd.wordpress.com… How can I go about moving it to ajsdhkjshdkj.com? (sorry for the random letters haha) Is my only option buying the domain name through wordpress and then using wordpress to host it as well? Or should I start from scratch and take all of the steps you mentioned and then move my posts to the new blog? Can I even do that or am I SOL? Sorry haha you probably don’t even know but you and your husband are so good with this stuff that I figured I’d ask!

Thanks!

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Susan February 23, 2013 at 10:15 am

Hi and thanks for the tutorial on starting your own blog. I have been wanting to do this for a while so I took the plunge and followed your directions. However, I am stuck right now. I am on step 3 – downloading WordPress. I completed that step and now have no idea what to do. While downloading WP, a pop up came up that said it was over riding because my domain was temporary. Now I guess I am just lost. Any suggestions? Thanks for any help you can offer. I would even be interested in paying for someone to assist me in getting my site started. Thanks and blessings – by the way, I love your decorating style! Susan

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Mandy April 14, 2013 at 8:45 pm

Sorry Susan, I am just now seeing this. I am not sure where you went wrong. If you are using Bluehost as your host then you can email them and they can point you in the right direction and help you with the error message. They are really good about helping!

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Dawn B March 2, 2013 at 10:19 pm

Thank you for posting this information!!! I want to start blogging, but am clueless where to start!! I wish more bloggers would be forthcoming with what works and what they’ve tried. Thank you!

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Mandy F March 17, 2013 at 6:00 pm

I’ve been wanting to start a family blog for a while, but I worry about safety. Do you have any advice for keeping your family safe when your life is on the web? I see some bloggers who blur out faces or use pseudonyms, but that just doesn’t seem as fun or interesting to read.

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Mandy March 23, 2013 at 3:19 pm

It’s definitely one of those things that you have to get comfortable with. I am very open and transparent so it doesn’t bother me, but if you are not that way then it may be harder for you. I am careful to make sure I don’t put up our address or any information like that.

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Ruth Cataldo March 22, 2013 at 12:34 pm

Thanks so much for this article! I have just done all of this! I spent the last 2 days converting my Blogger blog to Wordpress after buying a domain name and hosting site! I got my domain name free when I got web hosting through Bluehost….so if you are starting a blog maybe check that out!
I am currently trying to finalize the design for my new wordpress site, and knowing nothing about code it is a little confusing…please excuse the state of the site….it is ‘under construction’!! Will check out Genesis, but think I may stick with a freebie theme for now!

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Mandy March 23, 2013 at 3:21 pm

Congrats on starting your site!!!

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Betsy April 6, 2013 at 10:48 am

Hey Mandy!
Thanks so much for all the wonderful information.
Love your blog.

Blessings,
Betsy ?
Betsy´s last [type] ..What A Busy Day!

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Christine April 11, 2013 at 9:50 pm

Help! When I try to install Word Press this shows up: “Oops! Your main domain is not currently pointing to your host, so we will use your temporary domain.” What did I do wrong?

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Mandy April 11, 2013 at 9:55 pm

Hi Christina! The easiest thing to do is to email the host. They are usually quick to get back to you and will tell you exactly why it’s not working. It’s hard to know what you did…it could just be something on the hosts end. I have never had that error message. I have had to email them before (Bluehost AND Lunar Pages) and they are good about helping!

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Christine April 12, 2013 at 10:52 pm

So I emailed bluehost and mine is being hosted under go daddy. Guess I did something wrong there too. urgh!

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Jen May 8, 2013 at 9:33 am

hi!

thanks for spelling this out so nicely! I have a (hopefully) easy question. I paid someone a year ago to design my blog and get it going for me. Unfortunately, life happened and I never actually got going with it. Looking at it now, I REALLY dislike the whole look, design and feel of it and I’ve been thinking of just starting over completely with Genesis. How easy is it to switch from one theme to the other and can you point me in the direction of how to do that?

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Mandy May 8, 2013 at 9:43 pm

Hi Jen! I have never switched themes before so it is hard for me to say how easy it is. I am in the process right now of going from Thesis to Genesis. However, I am having someone do the switch (coding) for me. I am not worried about learning Genesis because I think that will be easier than Thesis. Sorry I am not much help…but switching themes is one thing I have not done on my own.

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Kim Hebberd May 16, 2013 at 12:35 pm

Hi I am starting a blog using Wordpress but I was wondering if you can you google Adsense on wordpress sites?

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Mandy May 16, 2013 at 2:20 pm

Yes you can!

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